25 truths about females.

Recently I received a message from a young man asking me why girls are so complicated, and how to act around a girl you like. Well I don't have all the answers but I think I may be able to help a little bit. So I've made the decision to write about things that most girls don't address; The Truth.

So dear confused men of the world, keep these few things in mind. 

The truth is most girls will agree with me when I say that we LOVE doing something fun over something fancy. We love being competitive with you and being able to be casual over trying to be socially acceptable in a fancy atmosphere. It's quite stressful actually. 

The truth is most girls would rather stay in and eat endless amounts of junk food with you and watch a marathon of How I Met Your Mother with you on Netflix all day long.

The truth is most girls are not impressed with your money, we are more impressed with your words and how kind you can be to the stranger at the supermarket. 

The truth is most girls do not want to hear about your bodily functions, no matter how close you two are. 

The truth is most girls expect to be respected with the same amount of respect that your mom and girlfriend get, even if we are close friends; we are still ladies. 

The truth is most girls admire a man who can be himself in front of her and his buddies without changing. We love honesty and we love knowing you feel secure enough with us. 

The truth is most girls don't say a lot of things that are on their minds because they are scared of being judged by others.

The truth is most girls would rather have the truth instead of a pretty little lie that you made up. 

The truth is most girls hate playing games but we love to play hard to get. 

Annoying we females are. 

The truth is most girls would rather be single than dating someone who doesn't appreciate them. 

The truth is most girls love the little things. We love knowing that you went out of your way for us, a little goes a long way. 

The truth is most girls love when you are spontaneous, trust me we are more than willing to go to IHOP with you at 3AM. We love food. 

The truth is most girls love when she can be herself around you. If you tell her to 'tone it down' in public because she's 'embarrassing you' , you better be ready to say goodbye.

The truth is most girls just want to just cuddle and watch TV. WE CAN NOT STRESS ENOUGH, our down time is crucial. 

The truth is most girls want to just be there for you, we want to be able to let you know that you aren't alone and that you are allowed to be unhappy and not so macho sometimes. 

The truth is most girls care to much but it's because we believe that everyone deserves to be loved. 

The truth is most girls don't have the words to help you but we do give great head massages that will make you forget about your problems.

The truth is most girls don't want to have to plan a date or pick where you are going to go for dinner. You're the guy, man up and take charge. Don't be a tit. We hate that. 

The truth is most girls love when you stand up for her and especially for yourself. 

The truth is most girls hate when you say 'I'm cold. Come lay with me.' No. Just get a blanket or get your lazy butt up and come lay with us. 

The truth is most girls will never understand you and you will never understand them. 

The truth is most girls just want to feel beautiful and loved. We want to feel like we matter, like we are significant in your lives. Whether you are her friend or her boyfriend, you have a responsibility being in each others lives to make each other feel significant and important. 

The truth about most girls is that we are just as confused as you are, all we ask is to be treated with kindness. We ask that you understand that we are not going to 'put out' just because you have a six pack and a pair of David Beckham eyes. 

The truth is most girls aren't as emotional as they seem. We just feel things more because we love with everything we have. 

The truth is most girls just want to be treated like a princess, you don't have to buy us fancy things but love us like Prince Eric loved Ariel. Love us like the Beast loved Belle. Love us like Ethan loves Rachel in Something Borrowed. We don't have to be romantically involved to be loved back in a way we've never been loved before.We know life isn't a fairytale but we want to believe in a happily ever after even with the circumstances that comes with life.

You're welcome.